The Red Flannel Rag
porch with the casket, a few raindrops started to fall. Mom looked up at the sky and said
through her tears, “Happy is the corpse that the rain falls on.”
I visited his grave with Aunt Goldie many times, and I would try to defocus my
eyes and see him lying beneath the ground, so close but yet never to be seen again.
About two weeks after his death, we kids were playing a game with Mom in the living
room of our house. I heard Uncle Rob call my sister’s name. She was his favorite of us
kids.
Aunt Goldie learned to drive, got a job at a silk mill in Harrisonburg, raised her
kids and died forty-five years later having accumulated a small fortune. She was literally
the first woman that I saw driving a vehicle--an aqua green pickup truck. She was also
the first woman to work outside the community.
Aunt Goldie loved to go to dances after she was widowed. Before she went out to
a dance, she dressed in bright colored, stylish dresses with big floppy hats. She broke
the traditional role of the mountain woman. As she dressed for the dance, she turned
from a working mountain woman to a strikingly beautiful, stylish woman — smiling
through her makeup. She wore her hair in a bun or braided around her head. In her
apron and work clothes, she looked like a woman who had put her hair up because she
didn’t want it to interfere wit h her work. When she was going to dance, she added a
stylish, wide, floppy hat, and suddenly her hair looked like a beautiful beau font.
She did exciting things with her widowed sister-in-law, Annie Reedy. They took
rides on the newly built Skyline Drive, a part of the Blue Ridge Parkway. They double
dated and went on picnics. Aunt Goldie always talked about her high cheekbones and
her high breastbone. She claimed she was part Cherokee Indian. I believed it until I
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